This sums up partner relationship management for me. One day the sun is shining and the birds are singing. The stars are fully aligned and everything is going to plan. But then the wheels start to fall off…. they always do (and if they don’t then the partnership isn’t trying hard enough to maximise potential).

This doesn’t have to be anyone’s fault either – it could be external unforeseen factors, or it could be something closer to home. Regardless of the source, laying blame or dwelling on the issue is not helpful and it is very easy for both sides to become entrenched in their views.  What is important is how we navigate and work our way (collectively) through this that defines whether the season of light will soon be upon us once again. Two key elements we should follow to prevent such a standoff are 1) an early meeting of minds and 2) considering the other’s viewpoint in resolving disputes.

A failure to plan or adequately prepare for troubling times can make things worse when they arrive.  It’s well documented that MGAs and their carriers often have differing objectives so anticipating potential conflicts isn’t hard.  As you stare at the black clouds on the horizon, you know that you can’t stop the rain from coming, but you can start to make your way home before it arrives. Yes, you might get wet, but you shouldn’t catch pneumonia!

So have the tough conversations upfront, ensure there is clarity and a genuine meeting of minds. All too often in a new relationship you only focus on the nice bits rather than the differing interests. Agreeing commercial terms is purely academic if strategically both parties seek very different things. While the differences are likely to remain, understanding these up front should help to resolve these differences when they do arrive.

So onto the second objective, how do we navigate our way to better times? Well, it isn’t straightforward and there is no one-size fits-all approach but trying to park our own issues to one side for a second and taking the third person perspective is often helpful. This is, after all, the approach professional mediators (and marriage guidance counsellors) tend to take. But why does this work?

Well, for one, when we approach any situation where there is conflict or disagreement with someone, the natural human response is to fight and always focus on what we need to happen from our own perspective. And we get really annoyed if they can’t completely see, understand and bow down to our point of view. Right?

It should come as no surprise to hear that the other side feels exactly the same and while both sides feel justified in their stance, this is just really reinforcing each party’s position without taking a single step into “no man’s land” where a mutually acceptable solution lies.

As Henry Kissinger knew when facing the intractable Egypt/Israel conflict, taking the 3rd person perspective and attempting to understand each side’s position is a healthy start point. If you can appreciate where they are coming from and what is at stake, then you can realise why they might not be able to completely see, understand and bow down to your point of view. And if both sides approach the position from the third person perspective, then you are on the way to reaching a solution much quicker and emerge with your relationship intact.

So take the time to get the prenuptials agreed, and if disagreement does raise its head try to channel your inner Kissinger.  After all, as that opening Dickens sentence concludes, those best of times and worst of times were “like the present period”: these ups and downs will always be with us.

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